On Saturday night I celebrated my birthday. Family and friends came from near and far to spend the night in the pub with me and catch up, have a laugh and drink some wine. The night flew by, and I left in high spirits, wishing I’d had more time to talk to everyone and appreciative of the effort they had made to be there.
And now, I PROMISE I will not talk about turning 40 again. I am sure everybody has had quite enough of me and my insecurities, so I faithfully swear to shut up about it.
And, by the way, you were all correct. It’s fine.
So, what now? Well, I have decided how’s the time to make a few life changes…nothing big, just small things that might make a big difference in the long run. I am adding a page to the blog to chart them…and plan to start by finally cutting sugar out of my tea. I went from 2 spoonfuls and over the years have got it down to a ¼ spoonful. I could never quite surrender that last little bit, but have put it on the list. Well, presently it’s the only thing on the list, but I shall add to it over the coming months and try to give myself a bit of an overhaul. A human spring clean. I shall wipe the skirting boards of my soul and brush the cobwebs from my brain. A lick of paint will be given to my exterior and my bad habits will be boxed up for charity. And I will stop using so many bad metaphors. I hope. Can’t make any promises on that one….
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Have a good week y’all. xx


Well happy birthday to you…welcome to the club! The ‘over 40 and proud’ club ;) Hope you had a great party and I’m glad to see you have some new challenges ahead – albeit little ones!
Yes, tiny steps!
happy birthday to you lovely xx Hate to say i told you so…
;)
You will rock 40 anyhow :)
I shall do my best xx
Well I never ! I wouldn’t have had you down as a sweet tea kind of girl! ;)
Bon anniversaire!!
Something has gone a bit wrong when I added my link but it should take you there hopefully… The post is called More Baking!
Thanks for linking up. Am missing the sugar…even though just a few grains :-/
‘Forty small ways to change my world’ – Fab, I love it. So glad that you had a really lovely birthday in the end – not so bad is it…. life begins at…. X.
…..40!!
Happy Birthday!!
Thank you. X
Glad you’ve realised that 40 is not so bad. I bet you can’t wait for Husband to catch you up!!! How’s the sugar-free tea going? Fab weekend.
Tea, not good. Weekend, great! X